“Firstly, they said I was a tomboy and I will nót get a husband, some said I'm into wómen. Secondly, when I got married, they said...See more it's fáke, and when I gave birth, they said it can't be true. Again, when I plaited my only son's hair, Michael, they said I shouldn't, and now they say my husband isn't lóoking good. Why does your life always have to do with someone else's life? You want to dictate what happens in another person's life you're not feéding? You all should rest.” – Black Chully